Thursday, August 22, 2013

Faking it Until You Make It

I'm sure you have all heard of this saying at some point in your life one way or another. It makes me laugh just thinking of it as I wrote it as a post. But it is true. We feel sometimes emotionally bothered about circumstances, situations, even relationships. We are human so of course that is natural for us to feel this way. But, even though we may feel this way we don't want to show how we are really feeling to everyone else and this is because of how they may perceive us down the road. When we fake it until we make it, is it really wrong? In my perspective, I don't think it is wrong because it will end up being apart of us down the road the very thing that we fake. This is what most people think too. It gets hard to do this trust me I know because you just want to give up and throw in the towel. Faking it until you make it is one of the best strategies because when you look back and wonder how did I get over, it was nothing but Jesus that kept you. You will look back and laugh. Faking it in my opinion can even extend to using your imagination or foresight. This gives you the belief to know that what I am dealing with now is only going to be for a time, but there is better down the road and those same people that looked down on you will be the same that look up at you. God will exalt you in His time and in no other time. I was told by my fiance that faking it until you make it in relationships is a no go at all. It can't be done because if the party that is faking it just to make the other said party happy then they will be explode and the relationship will go sour. You don't want that at all to happen because both said parties will be unhappy. This will make things ten times worse. But, for other matters I believe that faking it until make it works because in the end it will become a part of you in a sense that you will become better later on in the future. If you don't think so, then try it!

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